Best Time To Carry Your Actions.

If you can't give the person, don't take from such person. 
If you can't make a person smile, don't make that person cry. 
If you can't be the reason why someone is happy, don't be the reason why the person is sad.
If you can't be the solution, don't be the problem. 
If you're not yet ready to host someone, don't bother yourself inviting the person. 
If you're not yet emotionally strong, don't jump into relationship.
If you're not yet a MAN don't call for a woman. 
If you're not yet a WOMAN, don't call a man. 
If you're not yet ready to be a man, don't embark on the task that belongs to a man. 
If you're not yet ready to be a woman, don't bother embarking on a task that belongs to a woman. 
If you're not yet ready to be a parent, don't wish for a child. 
If you're yet ready to be a teacher, don't bother having a student. 
If you're not yet ready to risk, don't bother yourself investing. 
If you're not yet ready to die, don't bother coming into existence. 
If you know you can't swim, don't bother crossing the sea.
If you has not been the reason why someone is increasing, why fighting to be why such person will be decreasing? 

The bottom line is that, sometimes we complains about our situations, our partners, our jobs, we complains about this and about that but then, we fails to realize that if we're really ready for such things we complains about, if we're really prepared for it, we won't be able to feel it's hits like the we do.

Other times, people complains about others characters forgetting that, sometimes, it don't used to be the results of how they were being dealt with, by others but how others were being dealt with, by them. 

Sometimes, that our BEST efforts used to be others' WORST effort. 

Do you think, the person has not been treating you right the way you really deserves? Why not also think about this, "if you has also been treating such person right the way he/she deserves"?

Sometimes, we complains that "he/she demands a lot" not knowing that there was once a time such person gave us something. Though we considered such thing to be "small or little" not it can worth a gold in their eyes and when they demands back from you, they expects you to pay them in 'gold'. That's why, when you give them, they expects more from you because you really need to pay back that 'gold'. So, while collects be careful and ready to  pay back in any amount because you might collecting the person's 'gold'. Don't get pissed off when they requests for it, don't expect them to accept your 'silver' for their 'gold'.

Remember, it takes a lot to be a MAN or WOMAN.
 Being a man is far above, having the man genital organ. That's being a man by nature. That's the first version of your creation. That's a form that God made you into. 
The next version that brings and broadly marks out the masculinity in the man is the one he created himself into. Being a man or becoming a man, has much more to do with creating yourself, turning yourself into the strong type.  Being a man has much more to do with the HEART. You really need to train your heart first. So that you can be able to withstand the tempest, to calm down any wreck, to move mountains, to withstand a hit from the rocks.
 This entails training your heart and mind physically, and mentally, and emotionally, and spiritually. To keep moving, when others are quitting. To keep smiling even the situation expects tears. To get over characters. And many more tasks and attributes, you really need to acquire. 
This goes on both sides. Being a woman entails, training your mind. Creating and or transforming yourself into the woman of virtue. To withstand tears even when they comes rushing. To keep going and creating for yourself, the world you so wishes. Not depending on the partner! Before you wishing to have a man, you train and build up your HEART, so as to withstand any form of emotional tramples, against its occurrence from the partner.

Finally, any thing, any mission, any project, any task you wants to venture into, DO IT, ONLY, IF AND WHEN YOU CAN .
Always do it, ONLY, if and when you CAN! 

Think about this. Think broadly about it.

REGARDS TO YOU FROM  Xceptionals' Arena